The Star Online: Lifestyle: Parenting
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| Posted: 14 Feb 2014 12:47 AM PST HOW can we help our toddler adjust to having a new baby sister and make him feel loved and secure? Lately, he's been misbehaving, whining, and crying as a way of getting our attention. The first thing you need to know is that this is perfectly normal. Since the day you brought him home your older child has been the center of attention in your family. Now a screaming, crying little stranger has suddenly appeared on the scene and upset his world, demanding huge amounts of your time and attention. It's only natural that he feels a bit put out. There are several strategies you can adopt to help him through this difficult period of adjustment. First, it's going to be important for dad to take an active, involved role with both toddler and baby. When you're nursing or tending the infant, your husband should engage the older child in some kind of fun one-on-one activity, giving the boy his full attention and resisting the urge to throw in the towel if he starts whimpering or calling for Mommy. On the other side of the coin, your husband should give you frequent breaks in the business of changing, rocking, burping, and generally caring for the baby. That will enable you to spend some special time with your toddler each day. It's worth mentioning that many parents notice some regressive behavior on the part of their toddler after a new baby arrives. For example, the child may try to climb into the infant's crib or suddenly forget his potty training skills. One way to nip this in the bud is to affirm your toddler of his "grown-up" capabilities and point out some of the advantages of being older. You might say something like, "You're such a big boy now! You can go to the park and ride on the swings. The baby is too little to do that." As you're aware, your older child needs to be reassured that he's special and unique. So, let him know that you love him and praise him generously when he's helpful or kind toward the baby. > This article is courtesy of Focus on the Family. |
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